The Goat and the Kid

words

2012-02-02T08:00:00.000-08:00

I remember when my mom would scrawl a love note on my napkin when I was a kid.
No matter what kind of day I was having, that note would remind me of my mom's love for me.
She still sends me notes. She still reminds me of that.

I am drooling over instagram right now and the monthly photo assignments from here
Today's was simple: words.
Words are powerful.. hurtful or healing. uplifting or breaking.

Do you instagram?
I am at.... thegoatandthekid.

Happy Thursday.

Pioneer Woman Book Club Night

2012-01-31T07:39:00.000-08:00

You know I love a good US Weekly binge. I confess.
But, recently, I have been known to read something called...... a book!
Shocking, I know.
I joined a book club and am motivated and now, assigned to read different genres.
Part of the motivation to complete the assignment is to be adequately prepared for the Book Club get togethers. I am a pleaser that way.
January was my month to choose the book and put on the Book Club Night.
My choice was: Black Heels to Tractor Wheels by Ree Drummond. aka: The Pioneer Woman.

Let me just be honest here.
I chose this book for 3 reasons:
1. I love PW. Love her blog. Love her cookbook. So, won't I love her book?
2. I wanted to have an all-out rancher themed food-binge complete with country music.
3. I wanted to pretend that I am leaving the So Cal concrete jungle for the prairie.

So, I brought PW to my So Cal hood. It was PW love fest. Her food, her books, her blog, her show.

Oh yes, and country music.

Without further ado... I present the feast:

tomato basil pizza, artichoke dip (from the cookbook)

chocolate sheet cake, flat apple pie (from the cookbook), blueberry crumb cake

Decor:

My great-grandma's red check tablecloth, burlap accents, mason jars filled with daisies all jammed in an old Pepsi crate.

If you have not made her crust, please stop what you are doing right now and make it.
Trust me. It will rock your world.
My husband's favorite pizza topping on her crust: sausage, mushrooms, roasted bell peppers.

Other highlights:
Janna came donning her rad boots.
I chose beverages purely based on labels.

Some ladies had never seen her cookbook, the close-up shot of Marlboro Man or her blog.
I was happy to introduce these essentials to the ladies.

If you have not read Black Heels to Tractor Wheels, please do so.

Throughout her story, you will find a situation that you can relate to in some way.

All of the book club ladies, loved her conversational style, her sense of humor, her observations and her journey.

It really makes you want to be an "Accidental Country Girl."

Even us "Real" housewives in the OC.

pin to reality: terrarium

2012-01-30T05:16:00.000-08:00

I love jars.

Big. Blue. Clear. Small.

Old. New. (How's that for a rhyme?)

I love maiden hair ferns and moss.

I love Pinterest. Like a lot.

After all of the Christmas loveliness went back in the attic, I needed something fresh for my kitchen table.

Something that is not too seasonal but is still fresh and fun.

This little Pin beckoned me to make it become a reality instead of sitting on my boards to just look at.

source

So, I obliged.

A terrarium.
The most difficult part of this project was the decision making process in the plant department at Lowes. I wanted some variations in height.
Total cost of the project: $25. Not too shabby....
Simple steps: Just layered the following in the big-mac-daddy-jar:
Added some pebbles, soil, a sweet little maiden hair fern and some indoor friends for her.
Top with a little moss and this jar full of green loveliness is on my kitchen table now.

Loving a Monday with sweet Heather today.

digging

2012-01-26T06:12:00.000-08:00

Right now I am digging a few moments.

I am digging lunch at Ruby's on the Pier.
Where else can you sit out in the middle of the Pacific and down a turkey slider?

I am digging a man and his hound.

I am digging catching a room full of happy with no schedule. Ahhhhhh.

I am digging the 99 cent section at Michaels.

I am digging a quick and easy Cilantro Lime Crockpot chicken dish festering while I am at work bringing home the bacon.

Recipe here.

I am digging an 80's flashback at the Roller Rink.

Couple skate. Rad.

Don't judge...

I am so digging this show.

I think it is because they have a pet goat. For real. I want one.

source

Digging something?

A new show?

A recipe that is rocking your world?

Hope your Thursday is filled with "diggable" moments.

double digits

2012-01-23T06:40:00.000-08:00

One day I blog. Two weeks later, I blog again.

Since I last sat down here, The Kid had a birthday.

She turned 10.

That is right. Double digits.

Ten.

That means a decade has passed since I unapologetically gained 52 lbs, enjoyed the 28+ hours of labor, 3 hours of pushing and finished it off with a grand C-section to deliver that 9 lb. 2oz. little bundle.

How's that for some stats?

Has it already been 10 years?

Has it really been 10 years since I became blessed beyond my wildest imagination by becoming her mom?

I am in awe of the young lady she has become.

Thoughtful, creative, determined, comfortable being herself, witty, loving and curious.

Since she always has a cold season party, she decided to have her friend celebration in the summer.

A Half-Birthday/Olympic/Swimming party

Sweet. Bring it.

I still had to decorate the house for the big day.

We had a family birthday dinner: spaghetti (of course!) and oreo filled cupcakes. Hello!

Ten candles is a lot of candles.

So, here we go into the double digits.

I have been reflective on the first ten and just am amazed by God's grace and this gift He has bestowed upon me.

I pray I can keep my eye on the prize:

raising a girl after God's own heart.

Am I the only mom who gets a little weepy on their birthdays?

what's up

2012-01-05T06:37:00.000-08:00

This morning, I am giving you the Christmas card/Merry Christmas/Happy New Year wishes that I

wanted to share 2 weeks ago.

Instead, I have been focused on this....

administering Motrin every 6 hours for 6 days

baking. a.lot.

cooking the best breakfast dish ever (will share later...)

crafting with my girls

walking along the pier and seeing seals

sledding down a sandy mountain on the beach

ice skating outside during an 81 degree day

visiting the Rose Parade floats

bike rides

Mexican train tournaments

Nerf gun battles

blowing my nose a lot

mailing out my Christmas cards tardy this year

getting inspired by Pinterest

drinking way too much Peet's coffee

igniting a love affair with my crockpot

devouring this book for my book club

recounting God's faithfulness in 2011

re-prioritizing for 2012

balance being present priorities

I had some practice with these over the past few weeks. And I came into 2012 rejuvenated. encouraged. eager to see God's handiwork to come this year.

What are you ready to tackle this year?

vintage candles

2011-12-14T06:15:00.000-08:00

Every year, I have that go-to gift.

The one that I can give to the music teachers, the swim coaches, the hostess gift, etc.

This year's go-to gift is a vintage-inspired candle.

I always love a good deal. They scream my name.
Michaels: 3 candles for $10.... beckoned me to come buy them and I did. The Sugar Cookie Candle.
Bought 6 of them.
Peeled off the cheesy tag and pulled out all of my supplies that I already had in my craft stash.

Step 1:
Slice a piece of brown craft paper. Did I measure it? No. Was it even? No. That is how I roll.
Mod Podge a layer of glue on the candle.

Work that craft paper around. Mod Podge over it. Remember... it dries clear!
See how mine is uneven. No biggie. Embellishments went all over that imperfection.

Step 2: Doilie + stamps= personalization
I had to slice my doilie a smidge since it was bigger than the candle.

Step 3: Find that imperfect/bumpy/uneven spot and put your stamped doilie there. Mod Podge on top.

Step 4: Embellishments
I am in love with my Martha Stewart Butterfly punch. With the leftover craft paper, I punched out some whimsical butterflies for some depth and dimension.
Folded a butterfly in half.

Hot glue in the center.

Put a handful at an angle on an imperfect spot.

Glue gun any more embellishments you can think of: buttons, sparkles, craft tags... whatever goes.

Step 5: Add the ribbon or fabric or burlap.
Again, I just free-cut a strip. It was going to shred and fray anyways and it adds to the rustic look of it.

Voila. I paired this with a Starbucks card and we had some happy swim coaches yesterday.

What is your go-to gift this year?

the winners are....

2011-12-12T17:26:00.000-08:00

Thank you for all of your participation.Now, how about some winners?
Janna's Sosobella/Paper and Bobbins giveaway: Comment #5Gen @ cabin fevered gem

Mel's Important Dates PrintComment #12Lori @ morning glories and moonflowers
Genn's Colorescience GiftComment #11Hannah @ happy days

Heather's Christmas Card Comment #10Katie @ see mama sew

Kristy's Personalized OrnamentComment #11Adrian @ sweet sugary goodness
*** Contact me, ladies and I will hook you up with the goodies! ***Now, go flex your muscles and collect your loot.

life made lovely: the most lovely time of the year

2011-12-12T05:54:00.000-08:00

Christmas is the "most lovely time of the year."

Fresh wreath + starfish wrapped jute+ burlap= a peaceful welcome into my home.

Sending and receiving cards, family updates and tidings of joy.

Fulfilling yearly traditions.

Instilling small reminders....

of why we celebrated this lovely time.

Getting my lovely on with Heather and her friends.

Thank you for stopping by last week for the Christmas is { ______} extravaganza.I loved meeting all of you. What a blessing!Giveaway winners will be announced this afternoon.You still have time to get in on the fun.

Christmas is ...joy.

2011-12-09T04:00:00.000-08:00

Our grand finale guest blogger is none other than, Rachel.

You know her from No. 17 Cherry Tree Lane.

You probably know her as the brain child behind Blog Sugar.

Rachel is rad.

I love how she writes from the heart. She writes what she believes and she is 100% on fire for God.

The word JOY is synonymous with Christmas. At least it is for me.

Each year, around August, I start to get a flutter in my stomach at the thought of the upcoming months. It's certainly isn't because Christmas is the time of year when everything is perfect, because you and I both know that anything that can happen will. Life, circumstance and trials will always seep into everyday fabric but what is perfect about Christmas is the lingering effect it seems to have on people. It may only last for a moment or two....maybe a week or maybe the entire season but there are glimmers of humanity, peacefulness, kindness and Christ-centered love.

It's really amazing and sometimes it makes me wonder, "why can't it be like this ALL the time?"

I mean it can but most of the time it isn't. The tree gets put away and so do our kind hearts. Or joyful spirit. Our sense of utter amazement with the Lord and what He has given us. We go back to life and the ho hum and we seem to forget the JOY of the nativity.

Each year, my family decorates our Christmas tree, the day after thanksgiving. We drive down the street, find the "perfect" Douglas (this year, flocked) and we tie it to the top of the car. Once home, we turn on Christmas music and start hanging the ornaments. And the next moment is what I wait for all. year. long.

The song "O Holy Night" comes on. Track 3.

The tears start to well up in my eyes and the lump in my throat feels the same as last year. Huge. Swelling. Making it hard to conceal my passion, pain, awe and JOY.

"Fall on your knees....

Oh hear the angels voices. O night divine....O night. That Christ was born...."

The joy in my heart is indescribable, each and every year. It wells up inside and it stays and grows and is bottled up but then released and hopefully spills into my every action.

The moment when the ornaments are making their way from the box, to the tree and Track 3 comes on is a yearly reminder to be JOYful. Stay JOYful. Practice being JOY.

Let's be JOYfilled with family (even those that hurt us).

Let's be JOYfilled with pain (the ever so evasive trials of life).

Let's be JOYfilled with our home (and use its meager humbleness to reflect the Lords simplicity).

Let's be JOYfilled in our actions (and do unto others).

Let's be JOYfilled in giving (and have it revolve around how much the Lord has given us).

Let's be JOYfilled in our moments (the small and the big).

Let's be JOYfilled in stillness (and reflect).

Christmas is JOY. There's no other way to describe it that is so fitting.

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So, there you have it. An intentional joy-filled Christmas.

Are you ready now for having a Christmas filled with what it really should be?

So, now it is back to you.

What is Christmas to you?

Grab the button, link up your post and celebrate all of this Christmas spirit.
It could be a tour of your home, a family tradition, a sparkly outfit, a yummy dinner, Christmas craft.
Or, it could be something simple.

Did you get in on the giveaways this week?
Winners will be announced on Monday.

Christmas is...home.

2011-12-08T13:00:00.000-08:00

This afternoon is my dear friend who got me into blogging, Kristy from Sosobella.

Kristy is the creator of Sosobella hand stamped jewelry and the happy place called Sweet Loveliness.

I admire her creative gifts, her love for her family and her zest for life.

i am so happy to be a quest blogger on one of my most favorite girls in the worlds blog, nancy.

i am kristy, from sosobella designs. i am married to a wonderful guy and we have 2 girls who i adore.

today i am sharing my home with you during this wonderful holiday season. it’s my most favorite times of the year.

the chill in the air. the gift of giving. the christmas music. the decorations. i love it all.

a celebration for sure.

so, come thanksgiving, we break out the decorations. i’ve heard a lot of people dreading it this year. as they put it up, all they can think of is how they’ll have to take it all down. not me, love putting it out, love watching our girls help bring the bins in from the garage with their dad. they love looking through all of it. we broke down a couple years ago and bought a fake tree.

i know, i know, but i had to. having a real tree was so hard for me. every time i walked by, i would feel a branch and see how many pine needles fell off. it drove me nuts. and the maintenance, just couldn’t do it any longer. and although i miss that wonderful smell of pine, i am a much happier girl not worrying about how dry it is each day.

our tree is full of icicle pine cones, berries, glittered candy and crystal garland.

i'm pretty sure, if my family would let me, i'd leave it up all year round.

i love lights. little sparkly lights. you'll often see them in my home, even when it's not he holidays. so when i am home and see my tree all lit up with them, even in the day, it makes me smile.

and around our home we have snowmen. they also make me smile.

and our gingerbread family

fresh flowers during the holiday are a favorite of mine.

trader joes has the best!

the outside of our home is decorated with garland, red bows and christmas lights. my husband has it down. he knows what strand goes where. it looks wonderful.

it's obvious that i can not photograph at night, but here is an idea.

those of glittered candies hanging.

l.o.v.e. them

***i woke up this morning to much surprise my hubby wrote his own tid bit about decorating for the holidays.

This year I felt like I was resisting Christmas. It was unintentional but I was resisting. Maybe it was because when I went to buy Halloween candy, Target already had Christmas trees up for sale. Maybe it was because no store had any mention of my favorite holiday, Thanksgiving (it would be yours too if you were able to taste my aunts turkey). Maybe it was because work is kicking my butt and I am so busy that I can’t think straight. Never-the-less, Christmas was coming and I was not feeling jolly, festive, warm, or cuddly.

However as I write this, I look around my house and see our many snowmen, our Elf on the Shelf sitting on our mantle with his arms around a Barbie doll, my dog Dakota laying under the Christmas tree, and enough lights on my roof to overload the San Onofre Power Plant (I can’t wait for our January Edison bill: it’s Kristy’s tradition to tell me that I had the lights on too long each night, and it is my tradition to say I’ll cut back next year:)

I am definitely in the mood now and all that it took was the excitement of two little girls who were so fired up to see me hang our lights. I had to fight to keep them from climbing on the roof this year. They practically ripped open all our boxes of decorations and had them strewn all over the living room floor in micro-minutes. It is amazing what two little girls can do to your heart. They love Christmas soooo much and are so excited every year to celebrate. It brings so much joy to my heart to see their passion and love for the season.

It just goes with out saying that no matter how young or how old, if you truly believe then the Christmas spirit will always find its way into your heart. . . even during the times when you may not be ready for it.

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so whether you are decorating, creating, baking or wrapping

find pandora on your computer

type in she and him holiday

press play

and enjoy

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Christmas music always adds so much to a home and Kristy's home is so sparkly and fun.

Thanks for the tour, my friend.

Now, have you seen Kristy's goods? I always do Christmas shopping here.

Personal. One of a kind. Super prices. Always brings a smile.

sosobella

Today, she is giving away my gift this season.

I just bought 4 of these yesterday.

Personalized Hand Stamped Ornaments

Guess what? It is your lucky day.

Kristy is giving one of these personalized ornaments away.

You know the drill. Enter as many times as you would like.

1. Comment on your favorite happy-inducing decor at your home.

2. Follow Kristy or moi.

3. Blog about this little week long party.

4. Grab my button for your blog.

5. Sing Deck the Halls as loud as you can. For real. Do it.

Tomorrow is the grand finale. Be ready to join the party.

Don't be tardy for this party.

Christmas is... faith.

2011-12-08T04:00:00.000-08:00

Day 4 of Christmas is {__________} series and it is going to rock.

Hannah from Happy Days is one of my favorite and encouraging reads.

Whenever I head over to Hannah's blog, I am always inspired by her love for Christ and how she shares her heart for the Lord and communicates it to her readers. She has a beautiful spirit and I am thrilled that she is here to share her faith and how Jesus is the reason for the season.

merry christmas! my name is hannah and i blog at happy days.

i am so thrilled that nancy asked me to join her christmas series.

her sweet blog is a favorite, and i am honored to be a part of it today!

thank you so much, nancy!

christmas is one of my most favorite times of the year.

this season overflows my heart with gratitude, joy and amazing warmth.

i seem to weep daily at the most unexpected moments. happy weeping.

these feelings don't come from peppermint mochas

or a new pair of boots under the tree. not even from james taylor's christmas music.

i love christmas decorations to the moon. but they don't keep me in the christmas spirit.

you know the catchy phrase, "jesus is the reason for the season".

that's it.

he is it. what christmas is all about.

even the cartoons know:

jesus came for me. he redeemed me! this is why i celebrate and weep.

he is why i enjoy all the fun christmas-y treats and traditions even more.

so. how do we act like we know this?

how do we make our christmas about jesus?

first thing i'll tell you is you need to intend to make christmas about jesus.

if you don't, the macy's sales, bright colored ornaments, fancy christmas crafting

and picking out gifts for grandma will swiftly shift your focus.

we look to him:

looking to Jesus, the founder

and perfecter of our faith,

who for the joy that was set

before him endured the cross,

despising the shame, and is seated

at the right hand of the throne of God

{hebrews 12:2}

and we set our mind's attention and our heart's affections on him:

If then you have been raised with Christ,

seek the things that are above,

where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.

Set your minds on things that are above,

not on things that are on earth.

For you have died, and your life

is hidden with Christ in God.

When Christ who is yourlife appears,

then you also will appear with him in glory.

{colossians 3:1-4}

jesus is our treasure. and his return is our greatest good.

he came to our dusty earth, as a man among us.

he became poor so that we might become rich.

christmas is a time to celebrate our promised messiah

and look ahead to his promised return.

i'm encouraging y'all today to gather with your family and friends this christmas.

to get into the word together as you expect christmas morning in your hearts.

as you enjoy cookie exchanges, your favorite christmas movies, and stuffing those stockings...

carve out some time each day to reflect on jesus and his birth over two thousand years ago.

some good places to find appropriate scripture are here and here.

another great read that leads to the christmas story, especially with the kiddos,

is the jesus storybook bible!

we adore this book year 'round. the authors say of it "every story whispers his name".

that really gave me a fresh perspective about not only the word of god,

but that it all centers around christmas.

his coming to earth is the story behind the stories, you know?

anyway, this is just my opinion, but this book ought to be in your hands if it isn't already!

there are many ways to get the family involved in keeping a christ-focused christmas.

beyond readings and activities at home!

whether it's:

preparing meals as a family to take to neighbors

adopting a needy family to buy gifts for

going caroling at your local nursing home

baking cookies for the homeless shelter residents and staff

making christmas cards and delivering them to shut-ins

pray and ask what the lord would have you do for others.

take a look outside ourselves and see opportunities to serve.

reflecting jesus, who came as a servant to save our world.

shout it, go "tell it on the mountain", that jesus christ is born!

finally, i really want to share one of my favorite christmas songs with y'all.

there aren't really any videos available for you to hear the original version,

but the lyrics are beautiful.

Welcome to our World

Tears are falling, hearts are breaking
How we need to hear from God
You've been promised, we've been waiting

Welcome Holy Child
Welcome Holy Child

Hope that you don't mind our manger
How I wish we would have known
But long-awaited Holy Stranger
Make Yourself at home
Please make Yourself at home

Bring Your peace into our violence
Bid our hungry souls be filled
Word now breaking Heaven's silence

Welcome to our world
Welcome to our world

Fragile finger sent to heal us
Tender brow prepared for thorn
Tiny heart whose blood will save us
Unto us is born
Unto us is born

So wrap our injured flesh around You
Breathe our air and walk our sod
Rob our sin and make us holy

Perfect Son of God
Perfect Son of God

Welcome to our world

{Chris Rice}

happy christmas to each of you! may you be drawn closer to the savior

as you celebrate this most wonderful time of the year!
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Thank you, Hannah. What a great reminder what Christmas is really about.

Now, go on and pop over to Hannah and give her a comment hug.
Love on her like she loved on us today.
Have you missed some of this week's posts?
Catch up here.

There are still 2 more guests to come. Stay tuned.
I hope you will join us for the grand finale, link up here tomorrow.
Nothing beats a party on a Friday!
Grab the button and tell us what Christmas is to you.

Christmas is .... food.

2011-12-07T13:00:00.000-08:00

Our last guest post today is my dear partner in crime from our Cal Poly days, Blake.

The stories I can tell you about our college adventures are many, entertaining and dear to me.

She is a gifted textile designer, dedicated mama, gardener extraordinaire and whiz in the kitchen.

When I go to San Francisco for our visits,she always spoils me with her culinary concoctions.

Hi friends! It's Blake from Salt, Teak and Fog and I'm thrilled to be with you today, since Miss Nancy is so dear to me and this sweet blog is where I keep tabs on her adorable family from 400 miles away. Thank you, Internets :)

So, I'm here to talk about one of my favorite things about Christmas... FOOD! Not to state the obvious, but there's so much good stuff at this time of year: cookies, special dinners, party food, cocktails... more cookies. The cooking, the baking, the eating. Delicious rituals.

My favorite way to work food into Christmas is to give, give, give. I'm talking edible gifts! They're thoughtful, rarely go to waste and, best of all, are homemade (no trip to the mall, hooray).

I'd love to tell you about my current

Top 5 Edible/Drinkable Christmas Gifts!

Hungry?

1. Christmas Granola

Last year, my then-boss gave me a big mason jar of cinnamon-y, cranberry-spiked granola for Christmas. It was beautiful, thoughtful (she knows I'm a fan)... but the best part was a post-Christmas string of easy, delicious breakfasts for myself and my little one. I was thanking her every morning.

This will make a big batch of fragrant, nutty granola, which will fill a few quart-size jars. It's based on this Smitten Kitchen recipe. If you don't have the coconut oil (though I really recommend it, it's amazing!), you can use olive oil.

RECIPE

6 c. old fashioned rolled oats

1/2 c. virgin coconut oil, melted until pourable

(make sure it's the fragrant virgin oil, not the unscented refined stuff)

2/3 c. sliced almonds

1 c. walnuts, roughly chopped if desired

2/3 c. green (hulled) pumpkin seeds

1/2 c. packed dark brown sugar

1/2 c. honey

Generous sprinkling of cinnamon

Big pinch of sea salt

1 c. dried cranberries (or fruit of your choice)

Preheat oven to 350˚F, with rack in upper position. Line two half-sheet trays with foil or parchment. In a large bowl, combine all ingredients except fruit and divide between two trays. Bake in heated oven, checking and stirring after 15 minutes, then every 5 minutes until done: golden and toasted. It's easy to burn the granola, so keep an eye out. Mine usually take 25 minutes total. Transfer trays to cooling racks.

When cool, pack the goods for giving: stir dried fruit into granola and scoop into mason jars. Stores best in the freezer (so the fruit doesn't make the oats lose their crunch--really works!).

Make the jars giftable with fabric, ribbons, ornaments. Print the recipe on the tag to help the recipient keep the deliciousness coming!

2. Limoncello, baby!

The first time I had limoncello, it was in Italy, naturally. Rome, I think? (Rough, I know.) Following a big meal of incredible pasta, the waiter came around with a bottle of frozen-looking yellow mystery hooch and, not wanting to be rude, we bravely accepted. When in Rome. Well... Delicious! Lemon-y! Refreshing! Potent!! Hoo-boy, heavy meal... what heavy meal. Those tiny glasses of citrus-y goodness were the perfect closer to a great evening.

Some years after that trip, my husband and I decided to make a dozen or so bottles for holiday giving. Wee sips of delicious, potent hooch, shared with a table-ful of stuffed friends? That's festive in my book.

INFO & RECIPE HERE

(The recipe will say that you need months for steeping. I say just go for it; your limoncello will taste great even with just a couple of weeks of infusing.)

3. Mama's Madeleines

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I like to give edible gifts that I feel a connection to. Yes, madeleines aren't as completely Christmas-y as, say, gingerbread, but there's no denying that 1) they're simply delicious with a quiet cup of tea (who doesn't need that right now?) and 2) most everyone loves them. For me, they remind me of my mom's baking. She used to send me care packages in college, chocked full of homemade madeleines. They've always been my favorite, no matter what season.

So, if you have someone on your gift list who's a fan of these little cake-y beauties, give a tin of madeleines. I think they're just perfect.

My current favorite RECIPE HERE.

4. Honey Espresso Caramels

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A bagful of go-go caramels is the perfect gift for your mailcarrier or UPS driver (who works harder right now??). Each little bite is twisted up in parchment, just like old-timey candies. Plus, hello: they're spiked with espresso. Maybe we all deserve a bag?

Heidi's awesome RECIPE HERE.

5. Linzer Love

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And, finally. A cookie. An amazing cookie! I think that if you're going to bake just one cookie this season (which might very well be my case!), the Linzer Cookie is hard to top. A hazelnut-filled dough, raspberry preserves, pretty peek-a-boo looks. It's the whole package.

A few years ago, I became a Linzer lover. I baked a whole, lattice-topped Linzer tart for my husband's near-Christmas birthday. And I'm not really a big baker. It was the most laborious baking I've ever done. But, let me tell you, every year since, I drop heavy-handed hints about how he can totally request a Linzer tart again. Just say the word, I'll bake one! It was that good.

So, until Tart Part Deux, I think I'll stick with the smaller, easier, cookie-shaped cousins. And I'll give them away for Christmas. Well, most of them.

RECIPE HERE.

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How is that for some inspiration to get in your kitchen and make some home-made goodies?
Mama's Madeleines are finger-licking-good. Blake's Mama blessed me with those for so many years.
Thanks, Blake.
xoxo

Don't forget to enter into Heather's Christmas Card giveaway.
If you missed some of the giveaways or guest bloggers. Go here for the Cliff Notes version.
Friday, the grand finale link up will be here.
Get ready to share. It will be your turn.

Christmas is ... simplicity.

2011-12-07T05:00:00.000-08:00

Good Wednesday Morning!
Day 3 of this fun little series, Christmas is { _____________} and today I am so pumped to have

Heather from Life Made Lovely.

She is lovely. inside and out. I met her in real life in September and I am so happy to call her my friend.

Hi there The Goat and The Kid readers!

My name's Heather from Life Made Lovely and I'm so happy to be here today!!

For me, Christmas is all about slowing down.

Between Thanksgiving and Christmas, life feels like a race, no?

A marathon of going, getting, and greeting.

For us it did, and while we ran that same holiday race for years, we eventually

became exhausted by it. We began to realize that by the time January rolled around

we didn't feel more connected to each other or to Jesus...and seeing as how He IS

the reason for the season, we decided to make some changes.

Now we put our family first so that we can put Him first. We don't say yes to every

invite we receive so that instead we can make memories together as a family.

We have crafting parties at the kitchen table and Christmas movie nights together.

My favorite thing that we started doing though is our Christmas book basket.

Each year, when we unpack our Christmas decorations, we also unpack our Christmas

books. I pack them away each year as a way to make sure they stay special, and so far it's

worked like a charm. They're one of the first things the kids look for when the boxes come

out! And once we unpack them, we work together to find a special home for them. The

only rule is that the books have to stay together and have to be out for everyone to enjoy.

Each night before bed time, from the day after Thanksgiving until

Christmas day, we read books as a family from our Christmas book basket.

I wish life could be like this all year long, but that's just not the case for us.

We always have story time, but it's usually a divide and conquer kind of thing.

This new holiday tradition is made all the more sweet because of that fact though.

Once the little ones are all cleaned up and smelling like sugary sweetness,

I quickly make our hot chocolates so we can curl up in the living room to read books.

Each child picks out a book or two, and we get to work reading about winter adventures,

reindeer, the birth of Jesus, and Santa Claus. We laugh through silly stories and talk

about the night Jesus was born. Time just seems to stand still.

Anytime I begin to feel myself wavering...feeling like I need to say yes,

I remember those nights and then the no seems to roll right off my tongue.

Thanks for letting come hang out with you today Nancy!

I think you are so very swell! -XO Heather
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Now, don't you just want to go wrangle up your kids, whip up a cup of hot chocolate and enjoy a good book together?
Heather is always so inspiring. I just love her.

Have you started your Christmas cards yet?
I went to Heather's Life Made Lovely Designs and had my card designed for me and BAM!, it was emailed to me within a day! Amazing and I love it. So many cute designs to choose from.

Do you see where this is going?

Heather is giving away a card design.
All you have to do is any or all of the following:
1. Comment on what design you would choose.
2. Become a follower of me, Heather or a fan of Life Made Lovely on Facebook.
3. Blog about how much fun Nancy is and what a hostess she is...
4. Have an extra large cup of coffee and think of me.....

So, do what you have to do.
But, you need to come back to see who is stopping by this afternoon.

Christmas is....creating.

2011-12-06T13:00:00.000-08:00

You should be in the Christmas spirit by now.

Are you ready to be inspired by Gina from Not So Random Stuff?

I have been reading Gina's blog for a few years and I remember falling in love with her blog when I saw a simple and beautiful pinecone garland she made. As I read about her family and her home during Christmas time, I just loved how her creative focus was always centered on Jesus.

Hi there! I’m so excited to be here today and am so happy to share one of my recent creative projects with you.

For me creating is a big part of Christmas. I love to do crafts and projects with my kids, and I also love to create yummy things from the kitchen for all to enjoy. It’s truly one of my favorite things about this time of year. As a mom and a homemaker I think a big part of what I do is built on creating. I create a warm atmosphere for my family. I create a welcoming, comfortable place for my guests. I create tasty meals, warm memories and even structured learning for my children. That’s a lot of creating going on!

But, perhaps the most meaningful thing for me to do is create purposeful art. Create something that points me, and others right back to the meaning of Christmas.

So this year I decided to create a canvas that lists all the names of Jesus found in the Bible.

This was an easy project to do, even for a recovering perfectionist like me. It was about so much more than just putting words on a canvas but about stilling my heart to see Jesus the way he is in Scripture. And isn’t he the reason for it all? Not just Christmas, but every day living.

So with the intention that it shouldn’t be perfect and realizing that it truly wouldn’t be perfect I got to work. I pulled out a blank canvas, my Life Application Bible, a pencil, a ruler, and an eraser.

I simply put “Jesus” really big in the middle, using my best handwriting possible. Then I started searching the Bible, using the index, for all the names of Jesus found throughout the Bible. I liked doing this in the Life Application Bible because it has good study references, and a really good index. It didn’t take too long to find all these names. After I found them all I put them down on a small piece of paper, just to get a little idea of how they would all fit on the canvas. Once I was happy with that I printed them all on the canvas. No fancy tools needed, just me and a pencil and some time. It almost felt prayerful; as the house was empty, soft Christmas music was playing and candles were flickering near the hearth. Once I printed everything with pencil I went over it in pen, I just used one of my micron scrapbooking pens. Then I erased the pencil marks and added a tiny bit of paint around the edges and around the name Jesus. I wanted it to be simple. I wanted it to be easy. And I wanted it to blend with rest of the house. I think I accomplished all of this.

I was thinking about all the creative projects that I could be doing for Christmas. And I thought that if I can do one thing this Christmas, I want it to be not just a pretty project but a project with meaning. It’s about creating an atmosphere in my heart that embraces Jesus. Not just Jesus as a little baby in a stable, but Jesus as a man who died and rose again for me. And looking towards a Jesus who will one day return for me. Embracing all that Jesus is and all that he did allows me to create with purpose and with intention.

Sure, I will be creating lots more this season. Projects around the house, crafts with the kids, yummy treats and more will all be created in my home. But I wanted my first creative project to me right back to the great Creator, that’s what it’s all about.

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Thank you so much, my friend.

A project with meaning. Perfect.

Are you motivated to bring a little meaning to your Christmas?

Stop by Gina's blog and read her Christmas on Purpose posts. You will be glad you did.

Do you need a refresher course of what you have learned here so far from

Janna, Mel and Genn? Or, do you want to get in on those fab giveaways?

Cruise by tomorrow for more goodies and blogging awesome-ness.

Christmas is...sparkle.

2011-12-06T05:00:00.000-08:00

Welcome back to Day 2 of Christmas is { _____________} series.

Now, go grab a cup of coffee and hear from Genn from Life in the Hass House.

I adore Genn's style. She is so spunky and I have copy-catted so many of her looks.

I wish she would come to my 'hood and take me shopping. For reals.

Hi!

My name is Genn and I am SO excited to be a part of Nancy's fun Christmas is _______ series!

December can be a pretty cuh-razzzzzy month huh?

Even though December can be pretty crazy,

we all could use a little sparkle in our life right?

So today I am going to share a few tips that help me to feel sparkly amongst the busy hustle bustle of the holiday season.

#1. Treating yourself to a new shirt can really jazz up your mood.

I am loving the popular look of the bow tie blouse right now.

The one I am wearing below has very thin strings so I opted to wear it untied for this look.

Below are a couple other bow tie blouses that I have worn recently that you might have seen in a wiww post.

The navy blouse in the first pic, and the green bow tie tank are both from Old Navy... and guess how much I paid for them my friends...

$15 each!

That's it!

What a deal.

And who said fashion had to be expensive?

The brown blouse is from F21, also very inexpensive, but fun.

#2. Another popular look that is fun for the fall/winter months is leggings and boots with a fun sock peaking out of the tops of your boots.

These grey socks were less than $2 from Forever21.

A great way to jazz up an otherwise boring pair of leggings.

Cream socks with brown tall boots are fun.

Or even leg warmers over your leggings with a cute ankle bootie or flat.

#3. Create a place to store your fashion ideas and inspiration.

Recently while I was browsing the looks of the BP department of Nordstrom online, I marked a few of the outfits that I just loved. And then as I looked at them longer, I realized that I could re-create these outfits using similar items that I already owned. So I created a new folder in my pictures on my computer titled "fashion inspiration" and I copied and pasted the looks to my new folder.

I realize this is probably not necessary to do for those of you on pinterest, but I'm not there yet, so I chose this route.

I might even share the looks I created with the inspiration photos on my next wiww. ;)

#4. Know what's inside your closet.

I was reminded of this when I decided it was finally time to re-organize my closet last weekend.

I have a rule that I like to not bring anything new into my closet unless something old is going out.

It makes me really stop and ask myself do I need this, and if so, what am I willing to part with to make room for it?

I keep two 3 tiered storage drawers in my closet that I use to rotate my winter and summer clothes into. That way I can keep mostly only what I am wearing lately hanging up and it is much easier to see what I have and decide what to wear each day.

It always feels good to clean out the ole closet.

I dream of having a huge walk in someday (or maybe a gigantic and beautifully lit closet like the one Mr. Big builds Carrie in Sex and the City).

But for now, I will make do with what I have, and I will keep it organized so I know what's in there!

When was the last time you cleaned out your closet???

#5. The last thing I want to tell you about is a product that I have recently been introduced to and LOVE love love love LOVE.

I'm not gonna lie, these products have changed my life.

I am talking about colorescience makeup.

Have you heard of it????

Donna is the name of the fabulous esthetician that works in my salon and she sells colorescience makeup.

She's been at our salon about one year now and I just hadn't been ready to learn about this makeup, and I honestly didn't think I had the money to be completely switching up what I already had going on and trying something new. And I thought my make up looked just fine and I used good stuff, so what was the problem.

Well.

One year later, a few of the girls at work have started wearing some of this colorescience makeup and let me just say...

it speaks for itself!

My friends at work looked great. I had never seen their makeup look better, so I started asking what they were doing that was new.

And that was that. I had to try it.

So one day I sat down with Donna to talk about colorescience makeup and I said I wanted my skin to look as pretty as my coworkers do!

Turns out my color match is called "california girl".

As if I didn't already love it.

The driving force behind colorescience is to

color, protect, and correct.

"Why we do it?...

Everyone at colorscience believes that what you put on your face matters. The makeup we create absolutely has to be good for your health, good for the world, and it must make you look and feel beautiful. Isn't that what we all deserve? We think so."

I grew up having bad acneic skin.

I had to take two rounds of accutane as a teenager and it has since gotten much better, but my scars have always bothered me and I was afraid that I would not get enough coverage with this new makeup.

But I was wrong.

Instead it looks more natural, gives me plenty of coverage, feels so good and light on my skin, and leaves me feeling like I finally have that smooth and bright skin I always wished I had.

The primer is amazing.

It has an spf of 20, one pump does your whole face,

and it smooths and brightens your skin like you would. not. believe.

Next step is the powder.

I apply with a brush in circular motions (because minerals like to be moved around a lot... at least that is what Donna told me!).

Then a couple spritzes of the hydrating skin mist to set your powder and moisturize for the day.

Plus it feels really refreshing when you spray it.

I bought this set of travel makeup brushes from Donna too.

They are Italian badger brushes and they are ahhhhhh-mazing.

Plus they come in this nifty little travel case.

It even has a side zipper which I filled with q-tips.

Now you might be wondering why I am telling you about all this stuff right?

Well, not only because I seriously love how easy and fast it is to apply and use,

but you can buy through Donna over the phone,

or if you are local, you can come in to the salon to meet with her and have your make up done!

Her contact info is:

Donna Loop

with Sensational Solutions

Direct Line # (951) 479-5542

Salon Line# 735-8551

This is a pocket version of my compact color.

It is a retractable brush, with the mineral powder in the bottom.

I keep this brush in my purse for touch ups throughout the day.

Although to be honest with this makeup you hardly need to touch up.

Donna told me that and I didn't really believe her, but it is true!

When the powder runs out, you just buy the refill and not the entire brush again.

Since I am just so excited to have discovered this great new makeup, I asked Donna if she would be willing to donate any of the colorescience products for a FUN December giveaway to you ...

and she said she had just the thing!!!!!

One lucky winner will be the recipient of this amazing gift, valued at over $100!!!!!

This is the colorescience restore serum, which holds 2,000 times it's weight in moisture. It brightens and moisturizes your skin like you would not believe!!! (She gave me a few samples to try and I think this is the next product that I can not live without) One pump does your whole face. Apply in the morning and/or night on cleansed skin.

This gift also includes one retractable sun block powder brush.

colorescience has the first powder sunblock on the market.

This has an spf of 30, the powder mattifies and evens out skin tone.

(My Mom has this and she loves it)

If you want a chance to win this fantastic colorscience gift,

just leave me a comment and tell me so!!!!

I will randomly select a winner so check back soon.

Colorescience has been featured in Marie Claire, In Style, Vogue, Us Weekly, Women's Health, Allure, Redbook, and many more.

To learn more about colorscience makeup you can visit www.colorescience.com

All orders through Donna will be 20% off the entire month of December!!!!!

Before I go,

I will leave you with just one fashion Don't...

the full size footsie pajama?

Really?

Is that even necessary???

***Hope your December is filled with sparkle***

Much love,

Genn

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Don't you just love Genn's sparkle and sassiness?
And, that giveaway.
Hello???
Go get on that. Right here. Each of the following is a separate way to enter.
1. comment about what your go-to party outfit is
2. blog about your party outfit or this rad giveaway and grab the Christmas is { _________} button.
3. become a follower of Genn or moi.
do a happy dance about it... MC Hammer style or whatever.

More fun is heading your way this afternoon.
Did you miss yesterday?
Get in on Janna's giveaway here.
Get in on Mel's giveaway here.

Christmas is.... tradition.

2011-12-05T12:00:00.000-08:00

I love this week and I love having 2 guest bloggers each day.

Our afternoon guest is Mel, from The Larson Lingo.

Mel inspires me through her photography, her dyno-mite party planning skills and the special and meaningful traditions she has with her precious family not only at Christmas but through out the year.

Can I just say that when I met her in real life at Blog Sugar, it was like I knew her for years?

Hi Goat & The Kid Readers!
My name is Mel and I blog over at The Larson Lingo.
I am wife to Kevin and Mommy to my 2 girls, Kate (almost 5) and Claire (3).
I was thrilled when Nancy asked me to be a part of this series because I LOVE everything about Christmas!
(And, I love Nancy and was so excited to finally meet her this past September at Blog Sugar)

For me, Christmas is TRADITION.
Tradition looks different to everyone.
Tradition, as defined by Websters is:
"the handing down of statements, beliefs, legends, customs, information from generation to generation, especially by word of mouth or by practice"

Growing up, we didn't have a lot of Family Traditions throughout the year, but we did have Christmas Traditions, several of them. Our Christmases were rich with tradition and that is why I looked forward to Christmas so much. I knew what to expect & it was good.

One of my favorite Christmas traditions growing up was heading up to the Santa Cruz mountains the day after Thanksgiving to chop down our Christmas tree. This tradition started when I was 5 years old. Thankfully, my husband has let me carry on most of my family's traditions when we got married, this one included. We continued this tradition every year until I got pregnant with Kate in 2006. For a few years we skipped cutting down the tree, but we would still get our tree the day after Thanksgiving.
Last year, we took the girls up to the mountains to cut down our tree and it was SO much fun.
There is something magical about trekking around the forest & chopping down a tree.
We hope to do this every year (if our schedules allow it. We didn't do it this year because of a family birthday party, but next year, it is on!). But no matter what, we always get our tree the day after Thanksgiving. (I also continue the tradition that my mom instilled...no Christmas

The fun thing about having my own girls (they are 3 and 4.5) is that for the past few years, we have introduced a new tradition to Christmas. Last year, we jumped on the Elf on the Shelf bandwagon, but with a twist.
Our Elf arrives the first Sunday in Advent after we get home from church. He is the one that brings them their Christmas jammies (then, they can wear them all December!) Our elf also brings the girls a present to help them get in the Christmas Spirit. This year, the Elf brought the girl The Little People Nativity Set. If you are familiar with Elf on the Shelf, the premise is that the Elf reports back to Santa on how the children are behaving. We don't focus on that aspect of Elf on the Shelf. We just have fun finding his new hiding spots each morning. The girls love this tradition and were so excited when he showed up again this year.

We started another new tradition this year. On December 1st, the first day of Advent, the girls not only get to do their Advent Calendar, but each night they get to unwrap a Christmas book. What I did is wrap all of the Christmas books that we own. (We had 14 Christmas themed books, but then I checked some out from the library so that we had a total of 24, one for each night leading up to Christmas.)
I put them in a basket under the Christmas tree and the girls rotate each night who gets to pick & unwrap one of the books. It has been such a fun new tradition that is simple & easy to do.

Another Christmas tradition I grew up having is that every Christmas Eve we would go to church, drive around looking at Christmas lights & then come home and open our Christmas presents. Yes...we were one of those families who opened ALL the presents Christmas Eve.
We still do this with our family. It makes Christmas Eve special and the girls don't get overwhelmed with presents on Christmas morning. On Christmas morning, Santa brings the girls the 1 thing they really wanted and some stocking stuffers. We are able to spend Christmas day lounging around in our pajamas, eating, watching Christmas movies, spending time as a family and reflecting on the gift of Christ's birth rather than spending the day opening presents.

So, those are a few of my favorite traditions.
And, what do those traditions all have in common?
They all revolve around spending time with Family building memories while celebrating the birth of Christ.
I hope my girls enjoy our family traditions during Christmas time as much as I do.
I can't wait to see how our Christmas traditions continue to grow & evolve over the years.
It truly is the most wonderful time of the year!
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Thanks, Mel.
I love how you tie in the love of books and advent at the same time. Brilliant, my friend.
Now, go visit Mel and drool all over her blog-eye-candy such as this little beauty she is giving away!

An Important Dates custom print from Mel's Daylight Designs.

an 8x10 custom print of 4-7 important and special dates

Bang out a Christmas gift like that. BAM!!!

Here's how you can be the lucky winner.

1. Leave a comment about your favorite tradition at your house.

2. Follow Mel at The Larson Lingo

3. Follow your hostess with the mostess, moi.

4. Join in on the fun and post about this fun party week.

This week long rager-party-giveaway continues tomorrow with Genn and Gina.
Don't forget it will be your turn to share what Christmas is to you this Friday.
Y'all come back now, hear?

Christmas is.... giving.

2011-12-05T05:00:00.000-08:00

I am so excited to kick off this week's series, Christmas is { __________}.

I hope by the end of this series, you will be refreshed and have some fun and applicable ideas with how to keep Christmas meaningful, simple and intentional so our hearts can focus on what Christmas really is about.... Jesus!

The best way to start off this week long party is by having Janna from Denim and Dandelions come on over to talk about how she makes gift giving simple and meaningful this year.

We all want to give that special gift and she has some great tips.

Janna is inspiring to me with her witty sense of humor, her gracious heart and her love for her sweet family and the Lord. She is also one of my dearest friends.

Thanks to Nancy for letting me give a sneak peak into our home as it relates to Christmas giving.

Giving…it’s the first thing that comes to mind when I think of Christmas. I tell my kids that we give to others in celebration of the birth of Jesus, when God gave us the most special gift of all. While most of us probably enjoy the act of giving, it sometimes becomes overwhelming and stressful – not only on the pocketbook, but also due to the pressure to find the perfect gift for the special people in our lives.

Today, I want to share some ways that I’ve reduced my own stress level associated with Christmas giving.

1. Keeping the kids expectations in check while instilling a spirit of giving
Buying for my own kids. A couple of years ago, I heard of the Want, Need, Wear, Read approach to buying for the kids. I’ve followed this pretty closely the past couple of years, and it’s a great tool for keeping the kids expectations realistic and staying within budget. Here is an example of what Want, Need, Wear, Read will look like for my kids this year:

	10 year old boy	6 year old girl
want	trip to winter church camp	pillow pet
need	snow boots	new flip flops
wear	swim gear for swim team	bath robe (from brother)
read	wish list book (from sister)	a couple of wish list books

As you can see, I don’t try to spend exactly the same amount on each kid. The value of what they want comes from their enjoyment of it, not the price tag. Additionally, if there are other things on their wish list, I simply communicate those to the grandparents or aunts/uncles who ask. Sure, we do the Santa thing, but we place more emphasis on the birth of baby Jesus.

Teaching the kids to give. Although my kids have friends who get extravagant gifts for Christmas, I don’t feel like I’m depriving them by keeping it simple in our house. I’ve even had the discussion with my oldest about our own values and why our Christmases may not look like some of his friends. We also discussed how there are probably kids in their own school who would be grateful to simply have food to eat during the holidays, let alone gifts under the tree. As a family we discuss ways we could contribute to helping others instead of making insane wish lists for ourselves.

Some ideas for this year are Blessing Bags (kept in the car for handing out to the homeless), our church shoebox event for Samaritan’s Purse, and picking a non-profit to which we can donate. Demonstrating the joy of giving by helping others is the best way to show my own kids how blessed they are. One of my good friends makes it a family affair to sponsor a World Vision child – this is something I really want to do as a family for the long-term. Choosing a non-profit to support or a name from an Angel tree are other great ways to give at Christmastime. I believe that creating awareness of the less fortunate and encouraging giving of ourselves teaches kids to be satisfied with less material things.

2. Buying and Budgeting for everyone.

Buying for friends and extended family. This has been the year of buying handmade for me. These are some favorite gift items for friends or family this year, most of which were handmade items for less than $20, and all were ordered online. Sources are below.

Sources: blue collage 1, 2, 3 and 4 & green collage 1, 2, 3, 4.

Read on to find out which of these handmade shops are featured in today’s GIVEAWAY!

3. Make a list and check it twice.

To make sure that 1) I don’t forget anyone and 2) I budget, I use technology by creating a spreadsheet containing everyone I need to buy for, how much I want to spend, and some gift ideas. From my own family to the gardener and mailman – anyone getting a gift is on my list. Planning and forethought is the name of the game. As I buy for those on my list, I color code them and note what I bought lest I forget and duplicate! Each year I use the prior years spreadsheet as a template so I’m not reinventing the wheel every fall when I start shopping.

4. Creating traditions: the gift that keeps giving.

When it comes to the immediate family, I realize that 4 years from now my kids won’t remember getting a certain gift, but they will remember the fun things we did together. Our traditions are simple – baking cookies after school, reading Christmas books, and watching movies while sipping cocoa with marshmallows are treasured activities in this house. I guess it boils down to the fact that my time is the most treasured gift I could give them, and in giving to them, I’m the one who is doubly blessed.

All this talk about giving has put me in the mood for a GIVEAWAY!

Two local shops have donated these beauties. There are lots of ways to win a Sosobella necklace (made to order with your initial on a 16 or 18” chain) and some gorgeous Paper and Bobbins Christmas goodies (2 pinwheels, 4 tags, 2 extra large notecards, and a 7 ft. garland):

Simply leave a comment to be entered. For additional entries:

1) like Sososbella and/or Paper and Bobbins on Facebook
2) follow Nancy here at The Goat and The Kid.
3) follow Janna at Denim and Dandelions
Be sure to leave a comment for each of the above. Check back throughout the week for MORE giveaways. Winners will be announced on Friday.

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Don't you just love this sweet Alabama girl?

Now, go give Janna a little shout out and get in on this rad giveaway.
Checking off some of those folks on the Christmas list is always so satisfying.

Come back this afternoon for another special guest!

wiww: Christmas photo shoot

2011-11-30T06:12:00.000-08:00

A lot of time and effort went into our Christmas card photo outfit selection.

I now realize that we became poster children for Forever 21.

On the Wee One:
pink sweater: Gap, dress: F21, shoes: Target
rosette headband: sweet loveliness

scarf: Target

rosette headband: sweet loveliness

shirt: Forever 21

fever and virus: her own

On the hot Texan:

sweater and jeans: Lucky

shirt: REI

On Moi:

Outfit: posted here.

New Headband from my inspiration post: local shop.

Linking up with Lindsey and the gang.

Don't forget next week... all week long....

Guest bloggers: 2 per day.

Can I drop a few more names? Rachel, Genn, Hannah..a few more.

A few giveaways.

A big ol' link up at the grand finale.

Don't be tardy for the party!

life made lovely: not being Martha

2011-11-28T06:10:00.000-08:00

A few weeks ago, I was thrilled to get a call from my sister that she drove into town unexpectedly with her husband and sweet little boy. They would be in town for only a day or two.

A family dinner with the whole crazy gang was essential.

The whole crazy gang equals 8 adults and 6 kids.

I must confess... I am usually an event planner. I like to methodically plan out the grub, cut some flowers from outside, sparkle the house a bit and make everything "cute." Even when it is that whole, crazy gang of characters, I still do this.
Not this time. There was no time to get all Martha-esque. Instead, I remembered something The Reluctant Entertainer said about how the guests are not coming to see if your house is perfect or if the food is gourmet or if your table setting is from Martha Stewart Living. They are coming for fellowship.
So, I went into this gathering with the whole, crazy gang with that mindset and I enjoyed every minute of it.

I pulled these out of my cupboard. A bag of frozen chicken. Two boxes of cornbread and some salad fixings.
Dessert: 2 cans of apple pie filling, one box of white cake mix, one stick of butter melted and a handful of chopped pecans. Done. Yum.

Going into the holiday season, I am going to remember WHY people come over to the Goat House.
Time, conversation and enjoying that whole,crazy gang is what it is all about.

time and a few pics

2011-11-22T05:25:00.000-08:00

Dear Time,

I don't know where you have gone.

I have lost track of you.

Can you slow down just a smidge?
Thanks.
Love,
Nancy

pecan pie

2011-11-21T09:52:00.000-08:00

Pie is my love language.

for real. it is.

I love to make it. i love to eat it. i love to give it.

Nothing screams love to me more than a slice of pie and a warm cup of coffee.

I don't discriminate when it comes to baking pie.

apple pie, pear pie, snickerdoodle pie, peach pie with granola topping,

apple butter pumpkin pie, apple crumb pie

I even have a pie page on my pinterest.

Every November and December, I go on a pie baking binge.

my family recipe apple pie

my crumb topping apple pie

Last year, the Kid joined the Pie Baking Club and whipped this up on her own.

Aunt Norma's Pecan Pie

1 cup white corn syrup

1 tbsp. butter

1/8 tsp salt

3 eggs

1/2 cup sugar

1 tsp vanilla

1 cup chopped pecans

Put all ingredients in a bowl and mix with fork.

Put in uncooked pie shell. I place pecan halves on the top.

Bake slowly for 1 hour at 300 or until the crust looks golden brown.

Join the Pie Club. Give Marie Callendar a year off and go for it and make your own.

Is Pie your love language?

Christmas photo shoot prep

2011-11-18T09:01:00.000-08:00

The last time and the only time my family has had any "real" pictures taken was two years ago by this lovely lady.

One of my favorites that became the Christmas Card of 2009 was this one.

Time has passed quickly and now my girls look different.

The Kid is wearing women's shoes.

The Nubs is missing 6 teeth.

And, there is NO WAY, they would wear the same ensemble.

So, this weekend, we are swapping services.

Kristy takes pics of my family. I'm taking pics of her family.

I like our system.

I have been browsing Pinterest for some photo inspiration.

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Simple

I want our pictures to really be "us".

Simple is us.

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Accessories: headband.

Yes, please. I'll take one of those.

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Signage. Props. Nothing too crazy.

Making one today.

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Location, location, location

Blue chairs. Fall leaves. Bring it on. I don't have this environment here in Southern CA!

But, we have a good spot in the works.

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Color. What to wear? Great tips here.

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Capture the moment. Candid. Those are my favorites.

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Chalkboards. Must be the ex-teacher in me.

There you have it. My photo prep research.

Any favorites?

WIWW: best pants ever

2011-11-16T09:24:00.000-08:00

What I Wore Wednesday used to be daunting to me.

But, I have just made it work for me.
I can document one outfit per week. It seems they are all my ensembles for work.

Soon, I'll get my bootie in gear to bust out a few more looks.

But, for now, I give you the What I Wore To Work yesterday.

Tshirt: Loft

Dress/Forgiving Shirt: Target

Skinny pants: Brass Plum

Side note: best pants ever.. they have an elastic waist band! Think maternity but not.

Awesome. Jump up and celebrate kind of awesome pants.

Boots that let you jump really high: DSW

Now, don't look at my roots and desperate need for some color in my hair.
I want to show you one of my favorite accessories... the long necklace.
A few Christmases ago, The Mister asked what I wanted. My response: Anything from Anthropologie.
He hit a home run.out of the park.
I now say that for any occasion.

Other favorite accessory: the earrings.
They were a gift from the Kid.
She bought them with her Bible Bucks at church.
A treasure.

Linking up with Lindsey and all of those cute fashionistas.

save the date

2011-11-15T07:24:00.000-08:00

Are you ready to get some Christmas tips from some rad bloggers?
Are you ready to not run the rat race known as Christmas preparation?
Are you ready to hear what Blake, Mel, Heather and many more want to share?
Are you ready to read 2 guest bloggers per day?

Then, save the date.
December 4th-December 9th
See what "Christmas is" to some fun and insightful bloggers.
Then, on December 9th, YOU can link up and share what Christmas is to YOU.
A big ol' party at the end.
"Cause that's how I roll.

pin to reality: thankful tree

2011-11-14T05:28:00.000-08:00

Remember my first Pin to Reality project?

Here's the history on my mission:

"Nancy + Pintersest= True Love Always

I find myself clicking and pinning and then not really doing much with it after that.

I am determined to just go for it and make some of my crafty/cooking/homey Pins a reality. Try them out. Give it a shot and assess my progress."

For my first Pin to Reality, I passed with flying colors. I gave myself and the project an A. (and I am tough grader!)

So, I decided to try my hand at a seasonal pin that was just screaming my name.

The Thankful Tree

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I know you have seen this all over Pinterest.

I loved this project. The inspiring Pin was very visual, very simple, very easy to recreate.

Easy steps and supplies.
Step 1: Gather ye supplies. By gathering, that meant, stalking and trolling around the neighborhood picking up sticks. Find an urn or a can or a vase and shove those babies inside.

My only investment for this project:
$1.50 for scrapbook paper. Me likey.

Step 2: Free hand cut the leaves. Hole punch and then gather your wee ones to write what they are thankful for. The Nubs wrote Ears. For reals. The Kid was a little more deep.
Step 3: Thread jute or ribbon or fabric scraps through the hole and hang them up.
Simple as my apple pie.

Here is my assessment.
1. I loved the visual, easy to recreate side of this project.
2. I loved the lack of investment for it. Just had to invest some time to search for those sticks.
3. I was thrilled to see the girls really take their time with their additions and then come back at a later time to add to it. That was the whole purpose!

Where I would make changes in my own decisions:
1. Not pleased with my paper selection. I should have chosen 2 sided paper and something seasonal-neutral because this little beauty could be up all year; not just Thanksgiving.
2. I would make my leaves smaller for aesthetic reasons. But, the wee ones need some space to write.

Final Results: Thankful Tree

Goat Pin to Reality Grade: A-

I took off points for my paper selection. Need to think it through a tad more!

So, are you making your pins a reality? There are so many simple ones that you can bust out with what you already have at home? What have you been making?

Until next time... keep pinning.

I am joining Heather and her friends today.

thankful on paper: the sandwich shop

2011-11-11T06:30:00.000-08:00

I have always been a lover of November and all of the gratitude that goes with it.

You know how I feel.

I am overflowing with gratitude after being blessed in so many ways.

My phrase, "When you get it, you want to give it."

So, I took more of a face to face approach this week for my assignment.

Here's the back story.

I work part time for our family coffee business. Next door to our building is a sandwich shop. Owned and operated by a husband, wife, son team. They have maybe 2 other employees. It is nothing fancy but my dad, my husband, my brother and I walk next door everyday I work for a meatloaf sandwich or homemade lasagne. This shop has been here for as long as I can remember.... 15 years.

Let's just say, business has been slow for them with the downturn of the economy. Some super busy days, some super slow days.

Whatever the circumstances of the day, I know that at 12:00, two days per week, I will be greeted by this family with a warm smile, a cheery hello and delicious food.

They know us by name and make us feel welcome.

They are like this with all of their customers.

They could let their circumstances show in their service but they don't.

They bring sunshine to people's lunch breaks....

and some extra calories.

So, I baked a Trader Joe's Cinnamon Crumb Cake (raddest box mix ever.)

And wrote a little note of gratitude.

It is a random "thankful on paper" recipient but a very deserving one.

Do you have someone who just brightens your day?

Go on, get thankful.

WIWW: one outfit wonder

2011-11-09T05:59:00.000-08:00

Today I am a WIWW One Outfit Wonder.

One outfit. But, I love it.

Like I want to wear it all the time type of deal.

Maybe it is because the heaven's gates opened and I can wear skinny jeans again one month after my hysterectomy.

Can I get an "AMEN?"

Top: F21

Jeans: Gap outlet

Boots: DSW

Bracelet: F21

See, I am downright giddy because I am in these pants again.

And those boots have been sitting and waiting oh, so patiently.

One more thing that I am all Zoolander about.

It's Wednesday.

using a Home Goods find

2011-11-08T06:19:00.000-08:00

A few weeks ago, I was going bananas not being able to do much of anything.

One day when I mustered up a little energy, I puttered outside in the sunshine and spent 5 minutes on actually making something.

It took only 5 minutes, was in 3 easy steps, but the impact was HUGE.

Mostly for my psyche and also for my neglected and forlorn kitchen window.

Step 1: Find a rad dish in your kitchen cabinet.

This little beauty was my $2.99 find from Home Goods.

Step 2: Fill 2/3 of the way with cactus soil.

I always keep a bag of this laying around since I am a succulent addict.

Step 3: Put your little baby succulents in the dish, cover with the soil.

Give them a little love pat.

There you have it. A little sunshine added to my kitchen window scale.

Now, I can enjoy my Home Goods find all day, every day.

Five for Friday: Hello world!

2011-11-04T09:17:00.000-07:00

A week filled with going back to life.

Hello, world! Here I am.

Sending notes of thankfulness and encouragement.

I was asked if I wanted Christmas stamps at the post office.

Not yet. Let me get through November.

Seeing sunlight breaking through the storm clouds.

Yes, I am driving. Yes, I am on the 405 freeway.

Yes, this is dangerous.

But, I had to get the picture. It just represents so much to me.

Getting out

The only jeans that fit the Kid are from Forever 21.

She has one pair of pants.

I sacrificed and went to F21. Got some pants for her. Some tops for me.

Splurging

Post F21 rehydration and lunch.

Rad. Polynesian Sauce. Double Rad.

How am I feeling?

That smile is legit.

To quote MC Hammer, "2 legit 2 quit!"

Happy weekend.

Get out that legit smile and do a little MC Hammer dance too.

thankful on paper

2011-11-03T06:09:00.000-07:00

I have been the recipient of being blessed lately.

Meals, prayers, encouragement, hugs, visits, love

I am exuding gratefulness.

I know what it feels like to be blessed. to hear those words that get you through the day or just add a little sunshine to your day.

When you get it, you want to give it.

So, I pulled out a card and sent it to an old, dear friend.

For over twenty years, we have experienced adventures, joys, sorrows and losses. I thanked her for being there through all of the highs and lows. From teen angst, young adult relationships, new careers, family loss, and many celebrations, she has been there. Either physically or in spirit.
I love seeing how God has worked in her life. He has been so good. She is an amazing friend, wife, mother and sister.

You know the person you can just call and you pick up where ever you left off?

That is her. She loves at all times and I love her.

I am grateful for her and for our walk alongside each other.

Have you taken a moment write a note of thankfulness?

Isn't it fun to get a piece of real mail instead of a bill or US Weekly or junk mail?

Fill someone's love tank today.
It takes you just a minute. But, the impact lasts a long time!

post hysterectomy ok's

2011-11-01T06:25:00.000-07:00

It has been 3 weeks since I had my junk out aka hysterectomy.
I have learned it is ok to do and not do some things.
I think some of these ok's apply to any situation. not just junk removal.

1. It is ok to not be perfect.
It is totally ok to have dust bunnies on the floor, dog hair in my carpet and a grimy table.
It is ok to not be put together every day.
It is ok to have VPL (visible panty lines). sometimes.only at home!
It is ok to create a scrapbook that is not crafty.
It doesn't have to be perfect. Life is too short to achieve perfect.

2. It is ok to not have an agenda.
I have sat and talked with my girls more than ever over the past few weeks. Being present. My girls have had their tanks filled with quality time and it has been good for all of us. I need to do this more than just when I am physically incapable of running around.

3. It is ok to listen to your doctor.
My doctor told me you will feel like yourself again after 4 weeks. My brain only heard 1 week. Why? I will listen next time. I learned the hard way.

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4. It is ok to watch Parenthood in the middle of the day.
Oh my, I love that show.
It is not ok to watch Tyra and America's Next Top Model for an entire day. Trust me.

5. It is ok to take 600mg Ibuprofen.
It is also ok to totally love my new estrogen patch.

6. It is ok to cry.
in front of people. by yourself. when a breeze blows by. when you are watching Parenthood. whenever.
Lately I have been crying at the drop of a hat. I know that it is ok. It shows I don't always have to smile and say everything is perfect when it is not.

7. It is ok to accept help.
I have been blessed by the gift of service by so many people. I now know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of service. It makes me want to go out and serve others. Like tomorrow. Serving shows love. Serving is rad.

8.It is ok to not be superwoman.
My cape is in storage for a while. I'm good with that.

9. It is ok to need your mom.
They will stay overnight with you. They will hug you when you cry. They will rub your head. They will feed you ice chips. They will comfort you when you are depressed. You never outgrow your mom.

10. It is ok to be still.
When you are still, you can see God. I think He forces stillness sometimes. So, all you can do is sit and listen and see His mighty hand at work.
And have some heart to heart chats with him because you are finally still to stop and talk.

I am learning to look at trials through a different set of glasses.... with gratitude.
I am grateful for the past 3 weeks. No matter how difficult, how many tears I have shed, how many times I have said,"I'm fine" when really I am not.
No matter how many hot flashes I have had, cramping, stresses and frustrations....
I am grateful for this period of refinement.
What are you grateful for today?

Right now, I am getting more coffee. I am grateful for that!

Bye October

2011-10-31T11:38:00.000-07:00

October 31st?

Really, already? Last day of October?

Halloween is today. Yes, we are ready.

Cave-woman costume. Check.

Flapper costume. Check.

But, here is what is blowing my mind: Tomorrow is November 1st!

Translation: Tomorrow, we will begin to be bombarded by everything Christmas.

In fact, Christmas has been at Michaels since September.

Come on... really?

Don't get me wrong. I love Christmas. I am excited for Christmas. Christmas makes me happy.
I love what Christmas is really about.
I am all for planning ahead for Christmas shopping and gradually checking people off my list.
I am shopping now!
But, all around us, what Thanksgiving truly means is rarely mentioned or focused upon

Poor November is so often overlooked.

November is a sweet, preparatory type of month.
November make me warm and fuzzy.

A time to experience intentional gratitude. Stopping, seeing, acknowledging the gifts that God has blessed us with. The little ones and the big ones.
Opening my eyes to His works.

I had this thought yesterday.

I think November is meant to prepare our hearts for what Christmas is really about. So, maybe by December, if we have really practiced gratitude and opened our eyes and seen all of the blessings that surround us, we will be ready to appreciate the awesome-ness of Christ's birth.
Maybe we will be prepared to really treasure THAT gift.
Practice makes perfect, right?

So, I have some resolutions as I say good bye to October and hop into November.

1. Eat only a few pieces of candy before it mysteriously disappears to our employees at work next week.

2. Buy a ticket for the Thankful Train.

3.Buy a ticket for the whole Goat Family.
We are jumping on board and we are ready to roll.

So, enjoy your last day of October.
Tomorrow is November.
I'm ready to get my gratitude on.

Instafriday: being six

2011-10-28T05:49:00.000-07:00

Sometimes, it is good to look at life through the eyes of a child.

Take away the tainted perspective and take a peek at life like your kid would.

A lot of my Instagram pics this week were of my six year old.

So, let's see what she would maybe say about how to kick up your heels and have a great week.

Ask questions.
"How long would it take me to drive all around California?"
"What does sart-tastic mean?"
Ask a lot of questions.
Even if you think your mom is going crazy from answering them, ask them.
Curiosity is good.

Enjoy quality time

Playing Mexican Train together for an hour fills the love tank.

Sid Note: Don't let her cuteness fool you.

She talks smack the whole time.

Little Stinker.

Find your passion.

The Nubs loves watching sports on tv. Legit watching and knowing players and rules of the games.

Football: Cowboys

Basketball: Mavericks

This week, the Nubs has been obsessed with the Rangers in the World Series.

I found this Ranger shirt this week right here in Southern California. It was meant to be for her. It had glitter.

She screamed when she saw it.

Best shirt ever!!!!!

Pajama Day is the best day. ever.

Wear jammies and bathrobe all day at school? Best day ever, she thought.

I would normally agree.

Since I have worn drawstring pants, sweats or pj's 12 out of the past 16 days, I am just yearning for a pair of skinny jeans and my new boots.

Stop and laugh. a lot.

The Nubs thought this was hilarious. putting sunglasses on the hound.

She laughed and laughed.almost snorting.

at a dog in sunglasses.

The dog was a good sport too.

A good belly laugh and snort does a body good.

Now, go forth and take on your weekend like you are six:

observe the little things, appreciate them and laugh/snort a little along the way.

like the Nubs.

But, don't talk smack like her.
Linking up with these friends.

Pin to reality: pom pom necklace

2011-10-26T06:09:00.000-07:00

I love Pinterest. like a lot. like I have a problem. like I have to time myself.

You get it?

I find myself clicking and pinning and then not really doing much with it after that.

I am determined to just go for it and make some of my crafty/cooking/homey Pins a reality. Try them out. Give it a shot and assess my progress like the ex- First Grade teacher in me from the 90's.

Think Jane from Melrose Place... that was me!

Here is my first Pin to Reality.

Pom Pom Necklace Tutorial

Pin found here.

I loved her tutorial. Super easy and great explanation and step by step.
Plus, she is darling.. Little Miss Momma. Darling.
The only supplies I HAD to buy was the chain. Everything else, I had: scissors, felt, glue gun, fabric.
Score!
I loved how the necklace turned out. Compliments have been a'coming. (which is good since I look a little worn for wear lately!)
In fact, I am going to bust these out as Christmas gifts this year. Thinking teachers....
Next time, I will choose a different chain from Michaels. I need to be sure it is sturdy enough but not looking like I went to Lowes' chain department. Bad move, Nance.

Goat Pin to Reality Grade: A
So, what do YOU want to make a reality? A polyvore outfit? A craft? A centerpiece?
Just go for it.

choices

2011-10-25T06:00:00.000-07:00

What will I choose today?

Today, I will choose joy.

I will choose to be grateful.

I will choose to have faith.

I will choose to serve and follow the Lord.

It's all about making choices.

Good ones.

Ding Dong Breakfast Ditch

2011-10-24T05:24:00.000-07:00

One of my girls' favorite Halloween to-do's is to Boo their friends.

You know the drill... gather a bag o'treats, ding-dong ditch and leave the goods.

Last year, we did candied apples.

This year, I was inspired by Julie's post about receiving a Ding Dong Donut Ditch.

Donuts? What? Are you kidding me? I would love to get that.

This year, we boo-ed breakfast style.

1. Wrapped 4 store bought donuts.

2. Gathered other essentials for a breakfast for the family.

Coffee (Peet's , my favorite), apple juice boxes, apples, Halloween napkins, some candy corn????

3. Had to make Boo sign.

Traced 2 black circles with bowl. Cut. Glue gun on a skewer

4. Get your sweet darlings to make ghosts.

Mine went Pac-Man style.

5 Assembled in $1 Target box or any basket you can find.

6. Make your Boo label. So, they get it.

7. All ready to go.

Boo Breakfast Basket

Don't forget to get your ditchers decked out and ready.

Word.

Adding a little lovely breakfast-style to our 'hood.

Happy Monday.
Check out other bits of loveliness.

Five for Friday: Jeans... someday

2011-10-22T07:55:00.000-07:00

My big day in regular pants ended not so well.

Those pants made me feel confident that I was back to myself.

So confident that I.....

did 2 loads of laundry, dusted my house, watered my plants, drove my kids from A to B,

went to the bank, went to the cleaners, went to the grocery store,

swept my floor and made dinner.

Bad girl.

Needless to say, I was back in my sweats on Thursday and Friday nursing my wounds of thinking I could conquer the world.

So, I dreaming of jeans. of the day I can put those babies back on and just go about my mom business.

Come dream with me.

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I have orange flats. I can't wait to wear them with the cuffed preppy look.

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Is that a belt? Ahhhh. someday.

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I love my All Stars. Do-able for when I am "on the go" again.

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My new boots are just sitting in my closet waiting to be worn.

Soon, my dear.

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Cheerful and colorful.

I know they are jeans. But, a girl can dream, right?

What do you think?

I am linking with Janna. Even though it is Saturday.

galvanized bucket fall planter

2011-10-20T06:00:00.000-07:00

I am always trying to find variety in container gardening.

I have used a tower of pots, succulents in tin cans, a drip tray for succulents and whatever I can get my veiny, grimy hands on.

Next on my list is the galvanized bucket.

I found it all alone in the garage. wanting a little love. I obliged.

Picked up two $2.99 mums, some Mexican feather grass, a chartreuse potato vine and some moss.

Total Lowes bill: $16.

I kept them all in their containers and plopped them upright on some bricks in the bucket for some height.

Arranged the moss in the gaps. Added a few sticks and feathers I found outside and Voila.

Here's the great thing with it: I will re-plant these beauties in my flower beds in December and replace with white poinsettias for Christmas.

Just to finish off everything....
fall wreath, crow and burlap.

So here is the final product of my entry way.

As soon as I have some more stamina, we are heading to the pumpkin patch to add some pumpkins to the porch.
Hello Fall, I am so glad you are here!

it's the little things right now...

2011-10-19T10:35:00.000-07:00

I have been house-bound for one week.

I have not been able to take care of my family which is a job I love and cherish and quite honestly, have taken for granted. So, God has made me realize through this adventure how important gratitude is.

I have a renewed sense of gratitude... for the little things.

I am so grateful for my sweet mama. She stayed with me in the hospital. on her birthday. to feed me ice chips and comfort me while I was in pain. She also has the same sense of humor as me. The evidence is in the card.

I love her.

Friends taking time out of their day to stop in, say hello, bless me with conversation, a Mainden Hair fern, or even a coffee.
I am so grateful for friends.

I am thankful for being able to wear regular pants today.Woohoo.

I am thankful I have mobility now and can bend down and put them on. It's the little things, folks.

I am thankful I got a pedicure that lasted more than 2 weeks.

I am thankful for being blessed with meals.
My family has been fed for the past 8 days. Every night at 5ish. I have been the recipient of that grace and generosity. Words can't explain how grateful I am for those gals.

I am thankful for being able to get stuff done while decked out in stretch pants and hobbling around.
I finally put together scrapbooks for each of my girls. Finally. It has only taken me 6 plus years.
Better late than never.

I am grateful for the glimpse of Fall outside my window. Though I have no concept of what day it is, ( I thought today was Saturday) I realized yesterday that October is flying by. The beauty of my favorite time of the year came in my view yesterday. I saw it and treasured it.

I am grateful for my sweet kids and how they have helped me.

They have stepped up and really . I am even thankful for their primo bed making skills.

I am thankful that these pups have been mellow. Maybe it is the vibe of the house right now.

I am grateful for flouncy tops being in style right now. It is saving me and my bloated tummy.

I am back to myself and ready to step away from this recovery/menopause/estrogen patch/ adjustment stuff.
Are you ready for me?
What are the little things you are grateful for?

Five for Friday

2011-10-14T10:14:00.000-07:00

First of all, thank you, thank you, thank you for your prayers and well-wishes.

I am recuperating at home and just really mastering the art of being a vegetable. I am also working on renewing my phD in trash. Yesterday, I watched a 5 hour marathon of America's Next Top Model.

Oh, Tyra...Thank you for adding so much to my day.

Today, I wanted to catch up a bit. I may go watch Dirty Soap on E! in a bit.

But, first, I am joining Janna in her Five for Friday link up.

1. Love this fall display.Pumpkins and succulents. Dreamy.

2. Stress Free Dinners. Come to Mama. I have been blessed this week with dinners from friends. I feel spoiled and loved.

3. Weekend away with the Mister prior to "junk removal." Santa Barbara.

The weather was perfect.

4. The resort was perfect. We ate dinner on the terrace overlooking the water on our last night.

Glorious.

5. Final stop of our getaway was The Santa Barbara Garden. All native California plants. Amazing.

I know this is Five for Friday. But, here is number 6. Keep in mind, I am on medication right now and not quite right.

6. My fashion forward lounge wear.
A care package from my dear, dear friend that arrived just as I got home from the hospital. New jammies.

It made me cry.

Happy Friday. Go check out Janna's blog. It's Friday. Join in.

Here's to completing a week filled with laprascopic adventure, medication and more trashy tv than I know what to do with.

get it done

2011-10-10T16:28:00.000-07:00

Here it is. The big day.

Hysterectomy tomorrow. I am ready.

I have experienced a whirlwind of emotions over the past few months, weeks and now days.

gratitude.

Grateful for having been blessed with children.

Grateful I do not have cancer. now.

Grateful I had the choice to do this.

Grateful to have the knowledge of this genetic mutation. Read here.

Grateful for a husband who has supported me, reassured me and comforted me.

Grateful for family and friends who have listened.

Grateful for the love of others.

Grateful for a support system who is rallying around me.

Grateful for being covered in prayer.

celebrations.

My last purchase of tampons. Are you kidding me? Celebrate!

Celebration of community and support. a meal plan for 2 weeks. a blessing.

Celebration finding her and her and their emails of support and understanding.

I celebrated no longer feeling alone. God gave me their stories.

mourning.

First, I wouldn't let myself feel this way.

I told myself to buck up and that it was really no big deal. Instead, I chose laughter and humor.

Then, it hit me.

I mourned the loss of something that makes me a woman.

I mourned the loss of something that gifted me with children.

I mourned the loss of something that is in me that has been in me since birth.

I mourned the loss of child-bearing capability even though I knew it was over.

I just mourned.

trust.

I mastered the art of worry and anxiety. I pretty much earned my phD in it.

Anxiety over what is to come. Will I become depressed?

How will I feel from having estrogen one minute and none the next?

worry. worry.worry.

After prayer and reading the Word, my anxiety turned into trust and faith.

I now have trust in my doctors and most importantly, the Great Physician.

I have trust and faith that everything will be ok and nothing cancerous will be found.

I have trust that this is the right choice for me and my family.

I have trust that menopause will be ok. right???

I have trust and faith that my God is right there with me. holding me up.

He told me so.

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I am already in awe how God has already used this challenge to refine me and help me grow.

He is good that way and I know He has great plans.

Thank YOU for supporting me through your comments, praying for me and encouraging me.

You are a blessing.

I am grateful.

Now, I have to go pack my bag...

someone has to go get her junk out!

xoxo

chillax

2011-10-10T08:32:00.000-07:00

I had big plans for today. big plans.

Last day to get out of the house for awhile.

I had a date planned with my mama and my sister.

Roger's Gardens, lunch out, beautiful weather

the perfect scenario

until.....

a stomach bug came by for a visit for this sweet thing yesterday.

poor baby. she is fine today but I just can not send her to school.

That would not be cool.

I'll be honest for a minute. I was bummed.

MY plans were foiled.

MY big day was toast.

I wanted to get out and do some stuff, see some stuff, hang out, live it up.

As I reveled in my self-pity for a moment, I saw a prayer that I had written next to my computer.

(I don't recall where it came from.)

"This is YOUR day, Lord, not mine.

Whatever YOU want me to do, I will do.

Whatever YOU don't, I won't."

Ok, I get it. Running here and there was not on HIS agenda. It was on mine. But, let's face the facts folks, I am not the best decision maker sometimes. I definitely get myself to running around for no reason whatsoever and become weary and over-whelmed.

Maybe He is telling me (through a vomiting child), "Chillax, Nancy! Enjoy the peace of the day."

So, I am looking at today with a new perspective.

I am taking on His agenda, not mine.

Let's see what He has in mind.

Instafriday: the pre-hysterectomy edition

2011-10-07T05:10:00.000-07:00

This week, I feel like I am getting ready to have a baby instead of having my junk removed. You know that nesting feeling and the sudden need to get everything accomplished on the to do list? That is me.... right here.

Crazy lady with a to-do list who is about to launch into menopause.

Not a good combo. Beware.

To Do List #1: Enjoy First Pumpkin Spice Latte

Check. I couldn't bring myself to ingest one when it was over 80 degrees out whilst I was sweating.

Finally. 59 degrees and raining.

Consumed right after a spinning class. Why not? Balance right?

To Do List #2: De-nasty my toes

They were so foul that I felt bad for the poor girl who had to pedicure them. Now, they are ready for the nursing staff at the hospital. Plus, I had my pedi appointment with Janna. You know there was some cackling going on.

To Do List #3: Organize Pantry

Really? Did I need to do this? No. But, it felt really, really good to have a few moments of control even if it was experienced through canned goods. Just being honest.

To Do List #4: Buy comfy wear

I invested in a few pairs of drawstring sweats. Like I mentioned, I am ready to log in some serious lounge time. So glad some of you support my decision to catch up on the last 20 years of Days. While trying on my new snuggle gear, this cute scarf was calling my name at the Red Circle Boutique (Target). For $8.... sold!

To Do List #5: Enjoy the last purchase of these.

Too much info? Maybe.

Inappropriate? Probably.

I'm sorry. But, I have to find the bright side of this, you know?

Last time buying these beauties. Thanks, Tampax, it's been a great run.

You won't be missed. I'm moving on... to an estrogen patch!

Were any of these to-do's on your list? Maybe......Maybe not.
Loving Insta-Friday.

where you can find me.. a living room tour

2011-10-06T05:49:00.000-07:00

Welcome to my "entryway." When I say entry way I mean the 3 foot section by my front door. Though tiny, this little stretch of wall by my front door always makes me smile.

So many reasons...

The table was my great grandma's. She and the Kid share the same name. I love the odd shape and the scratches and stains. I always think there is a story to each of those marks. I look at them as beauty marks just making it more unique and special. It served as my desk as a kid.

The framed picture was from a Los Olivos winery called Artiste. The colors are my faves. I went on a high school girls trip this summer after my 20 year (gasp!) reunion and we stopped at Artiste. Such a fun concept there... Local artists design the labels to their wines. While you try their wine, you can paint or view the art studio in the back. Go there if you can!

Ok. this is an ashtray.

No, we don't smoke. But, my husband and I love this treasure. It says Broadmoor on it.

The Broadmoor is a golf resort in Colorado Springs. My husband was a Superintendent on the golf course there when we first met. Ahhh the courting days of 1995! We had our wedding reception there too. I don't remember much of that day. But, I do love this memento.

You know I love this plate. I always thought she was a ballerina.

Black Target urns were painted white. A bromeliad and little mossy fern add a little nature.

A tray for keys=my quest for organization. Simple and calming colors.

A good little spot right when you walk in my front door.

Within a few feet of my front door is our living area. This is where I am going to be logging in some serious couch time for the next few weeks. Read why here. I have been trying to change the colors in here from dark to light. It is a work in progress. Still. Can you relate?

Just wanted to give you a tour of where you will find me next week.
Ute free (as Wendy calls it), in my drawstring pants, watching some Days of Our Lives. I might as well catch up on the past 20 years right?

Happy Thursday.

pinterest love: maps

2011-10-05T06:31:00.000-07:00

You know I am hooked on Pinterest.
I am gaga over maps right now.

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I love the bright colors and details. Adds a little happy to a room. Don't you think?

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On a door?? Yes, please!

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As a craft medium... love!

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I think the teacher in me loves the concept of looking and learning.

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I could copy cat this with a picture of the Mister and me on our wedding day in Colorado Springs 14 years ago mounted on a CO map. Easy.
LOVE IT!

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Maps just make me dream about where in the world I would like to go someday....
The Holy Lands, Australia

Italy, Spain

Chicago, New York

Seattle

wherever.................

You?
What are you pinning lately? Tell me and I would love to check it out.
Pinterest addicts unite!

cancer stops here part 2

2011-10-04T05:46:00.000-07:00

"Cancer" has been heard as a diagnosis for four of these family members. Some have even heard it more than once.

Two of them fought and survived.

The other two fought and fought hard and did not.

This is my family.

my mom is in the second row in the middle

Here's the cancer score as of today.

Lung cancer. Pancreatic cancer. Uterine cancer. Bladder cancer. Breast cancer (3 times).

For other family members not pictured, ovarian and breast cancer (again and again and again) has made multiple appearances.

Cancer sucks. You know it. We know it. We see it a little too often here.

Five years ago I learned the reason why cancer is so rampant in my family.

There is a gene mutation called BRAC1 that shows there is a hereditary link to family members having an increased risk for breast, ovarian, pancreatic, uterine, colon and other forms of cancer. My mom has that gene mutation. A few of her sisters do. I do too. My girls also have a 50% of having this little "gift."

Here are the stats for BRAC1:

Because I carry this gene, I have an over 80% chance of having breast cancer and a 45% chance of having ovarian cancer.

These are just numbers. I don't dwell on them nor lose any sleep over them at all. In fact, you can ask my mother, I am very casual about it and probably more casual than I should be. But "over 80%" is kind of a big number. And, ovarian cancer... now that scares me. It is silent until you find it.

My breast cancer risk is estrogen related. Here are some equations.
Estrogen in my body=high breast cancer risk for me.think ticking time-bomb.

No estrogen= lower risk for breast cancer and ovarian cancer
No ovaries= no more estrogen

Once I was diagnosed 5 years ago, I had choices to make.

Some choices were passive: keep ovaries, monitor yearly, mammogram yearly, breast MRI yearly
Some were very invasive: complete mastectomy with reconstruction. no breast cancer risk.
I chose the middle road. My oncologist has always told me when you are finished having children, the ovaries need to go. As a result, breast cancer risk goes down by half and ovarian risk is down to zero. I'll take that.

a love note to the Kid

A few years ago, I knew we were finished having children. God made it perfectly clear. Our small and happy family was complete and I was thankful. But, I kept pushing the big decision back and pushing it back some more. I just picked 40 as the magic number time to get it done. It sounded like a do-able age to jump into the "change." Little by little, I started to feel convicted. Here I am with this knowledge and am I too vain to pull the trigger because I am just waiting for a number? What if something happened during those years? I would kick myself. I would be ashamed that I chose vanity over courage and faith.

Last year, the decision was prayerfully made and now I am inching toward the reality of it. Up until last week, I have been aloof and humorous with it. No big deal. Ha Ha, I'm "getting my junk out." Last week, it became real.

Thank you for your encouragement and your sweet words from yesterday. Knowing that I have a posse putting on the prayer warrior garb and praying for ME, is overwhelming and so appreciated. Some of you have walked this road yourself or have a family member who has walked this road. Thank you for sharing that with me. I know I can do this. I can and I will. I'll do it with a lot of faith and a little humor along the way, too!

You can read Part 1 here.

"God is our refuge and strength an ever-present help in trouble.

Therefore, we will not fear."

Psalm 46:1-2

cancer stops here part 1

2011-10-03T05:39:00.000-07:00

I am 38 years old. I am a wife and a mother to 2 beautiful girls.
Next week, I will be heading to the hospital to have my ovaries and uterus removed.
That's right... a hysterectomy. full on. 100%.
I have coined a new, hipper phrase for my upcoming procedure.
I have called it, "Getting my junk out." It just sounds better and is honestly, taking the edge off in the nerve department and the heading into the unknown.

So, on October 11th, I will be getting my junk out and I will immediately launch into my next adventure called menopause. I am looking at it like being induced into labor. No gradually easing into it. One day, I am "normal". The next day, I am smack dab in the middle of menopause and having a hot flash.

I will arrive at the hospital with estrogen pumping through my body, a uterus that blessed me with 2 healthy, beautiful children and a pair of ovaries that have given me a grapefruit sized cyst and countless months of unpredictable fertile days. One day later, I will leave the hospital with a few incisions, some sweet pain killers, uterus free, ovary free, naturally-producing estrogen free. But, I will be going home with a sweet estrogen patch that I get to wear for the next 10 +years.
Sexy.

Why am I doing this? That, my friends, is a long story which I would like to share.

I do not have cancer. now. at this moment.
I want to stay that way.
I need to stick around for a while.
So, I am choosing this path.
for them.

and for me.

Cancer for my family will stop here.
Come back as I chronicle my journey and how I came to this decision.

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

Jeremiah 29:11

sosobella giveaway

2011-10-01T07:43:00.000-07:00

Who doesn't love a give-away?
Kristy is one of my dear friends and is so super talented.

Check out her blog and enter her awesome give-away for this little beauty.
While you are at it, check out her new shop. Christmas shopping never looked so easy and cute and lovely.
So, go and get your coffee. Stay in your pj's and get some cool stuff.
Tell her Nancy sent you!

insta-reminder

2011-09-30T05:26:00.000-07:00

Most people who know me think of me as being positive. up beat. always happy. That is true.
However, emotions have hit me this week. I have big changes that are awaiting me in 10 days. Reality has sunk in.
I will share on Monday.

Throughout my funk, I found solace through glimpses of God's provision, His grace and His holiness this week. I captured them to remind myself of His blessings today and it reminded me how faithful He is and always will be.through the good and the bad.

a lunch date with the Kid. Just her and me. quality time.

a souvenir from the Mister's Portland work trip. a cup of calm.

a toothless I love you

the gift of music from the Kid's violin

Instagram served as an Insta-reminder for me.

God works in mysterious ways. even through my Iphone!

on the diy dream list

2011-09-29T06:20:00.000-07:00

After meeting Gussy this last weekend, I fell in love with her blog. Oh my, sweet goodness!
I am a dreamer and a list maker. So, here is what is on my to-do list aka Pinterest.Now, I just need a little time!

Felt Awesomeness

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Trees, Trees and More Trees

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Fall Food

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What is on your DIY dream-list?

Now, go find a little "time" and get creating. You can find more inspiration with Gussy.

WIWW: newbie alert

2011-09-28T06:26:00.000-07:00

Ok.. so here it goes.

My first WIWW post.

Courage was found. Here I am.

Friday Night: Book Club

We read Some Girls by Jillian Lauren. Not my fave. It is about a real life harem. Yes, a harem. Not my first choice of a read. Now on to my ensemble.

Jacket: Gap, Top: F21, Jeggings: Brass Plum

Earrings: Handmade by my sweet cousin. my favorite color.

I always wonder if my earrings are too big with my short 'do. Earrings are a must with a short 'do. Trust me.

I have been called a Mister before.

Saturday: Lunch with Blog Sugar Ladies

Super excited to meet some awesome gals prior to the Blog Sugar awesome-ness.

Thai food, Seal Beach stroll with Rachel, Danielle, Heather, Maggie, Janna and Kristy..... a blessing!

Jeans: The Loft (my favorites, stretchy and perfect for gorging on thai food, planning ahead!)

Top: F21

Flats: so old, I don't know where they came from.

Earrings: Target

My Forever 21 Experience:

My weekend-ensemble-preparation outing to Forever 21 was successful. I did not spend a lot of money. Got some cute,trendy tops. One kept coming un-buttoned in the back (Blog Sugar outfit).Whoops.

I always wonder if I am too old/mature in the age department to be shopping in the teen section (Brass Plum) or Forever 21. Twenty-one was a fun age.... even if it was 17 years ago. So, I say "Go For It!"

i am...

2011-09-26T13:30:00.000-07:00

Blog Sugar was a last minute gift for me.
I lagged on registration and missed my window. Last minute, I mooched a ticket.
I believe God made it happen for me because He had a bigger plan laid out for me.It was way bigger than just seeing all of my blog-celebrities in real life and even bigger than meeting those gals who inspire, encourage and make me smile through their talents and words.

Sweet Genn, Mel, Moi and Kristy

I left with something even bigger than the totally rad swag bags.

Even bigger than the new friendships I made at my table. Love you girls!

Even bigger than the knowledge of blogging that was conveyed.

Instead, I left with a gift. I tasted and saw that the Lord is good. He fed me.right there in Westminster, CA.

He took my persistent feelings of inadequacy and comparison and changed it into a celebration for who I am.

for who He created me to be.

for whom He wants me to reach....through my story.

my good, happy stories and even my past, bad, not-pretty ones.

So if I did not get to meet you, here I am... just as He made me.

I am Nancy.

Wife. Mother. Sister. Daughter. Friend.

Good listener. Encourager. Entertainer.

Baker. Wanna-be sewer. House Cleaner.

Coffee-drinker. Laundress. Pie-maker.

Lover of dance. Used-to-be Runner.

Volunteer. New Reader. Lover of Christian Music.

Blogger. Dabbler in all things. Short Hair Wearer.

Lover of Christ.

Forgiven.

I hope you enjoyed the sweet taste of the Lord's presence last night.

If I didn't meet you, let's chat! :)

friday favorite things

2011-09-23T06:24:00.000-07:00

Finding joy in the midst of a busy week.

It is good to pause and reflect on a few of my favorite things.

I caught the Kid reading a fact book. She is a total bibliophile. She told me only 4% of the population is left handed. The Kid is left handed. I asked her what she thought about that. Her response....
"I like it because it makes me different and unique."
Thank you, Lord for knitting us together into a masterpiece. Thank you, Lord, for speaking truth through my child.

My dear, dear college partner in crime, Blake, started her own fabric design/home linens line. Yep, she is talented like that. While I was on a Pinterest binge, I saw one of her products. I followed the link to... are you ready for it.... Design*Sponge. I am so thrilled for her. Celebrating friend's accomplishments was definitely one of my favorite things this week.

Finding a treasure from growing up and displaying it for that reminder of I always thought was lovely as a little girl. As a little girl, I loved this plate. The girl looks like a ballerina which was my passion. My mom gave it to me recently and it brings me joy. One of my childhood favorite things. Ahhhh.

Dear MAC, Thank you for creating a product that has saved me this week. A week full of lack of sleep and these two little bottles have saved me from looking like a crazed lunatic. Paired with numerous cups of coffee and we have a winning combo.

Yours truly,

Nancy

what i learned from pinterest

2011-09-22T05:58:00.000-07:00

I have now logged in 2 straight nights on my new love... Pinterest.
Oh my.
For the vast selections of awesome short do's alone, I am totally in love.
Here are a few of my "pins" in my What I Want to Wear board.
I have noticed a trend that may require a trip back to Marshalls today to peruse the boot department.

Untitled #1 by amrabieber featuring miu miu handbags

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Fall by acason21 featuring feather drop earrings

Fall browns by jenniferleger featuring low heels

Fall Jeans by heather-harristx featuring studded handbags

Don't worry, Little Miss Brown Boots That Caught My Eye Yesterday!
I am coming back for you today. I will give you a good, loving home.

Blog Sugar weekend. What are YOU going to wear?

tardy for the blog sugar party

2011-09-20T06:00:00.000-07:00

You know I have a serious problem with trashy tv...especially Bravo shows.

I used to love the Real Housewives series. The original season 1 Orange County girls. Vintage.

As the seasons dragged on, I "gave up" my Housewives as I found myself needing to shower after I watched it... it was so dirty.

But, one night as I was awake coughing up a lung, I numbed my pain by tuning in to an episode of the Atlanta Housewives.

I have been forever damaged.

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If you have logged in trash time on this series, you know what I am talking about. Everytime I now use the phrase, "Tardy for the Party, " I think of Kim's hair extensions/wig and her electronica single. In actuality, if this phrase comes up in conversation, I like to bust it out electronica style like Kim. It must be the inner-diva in me. Just being honest.

So, with the radness that is Blog Sugar, I found myself tardy for this party. I spaced on ticket sales. I was out of town when the tickets went onsale again. Totally tardy for the party.. again.

But, I was able to get a ticket for my tardy bootie from this gal. Thanks, Kelly!

So here's my question, since I was totally tardy for the party, I don't know who is going. Are you? I can't wait to meet you.

just me

2011-09-19T06:10:00.000-07:00

As a mom, do you ever feel like "chopped liver?"

You know the feeling, right? Moms are the bottom of the barrel sometimes.

Here is the order of "coolness" in our house:

#1 Auntie, #2 Granny, #3 Daddy, #4 furry canines #? Mommy

Recently, I have grown to accept my ranking and to not take it personally.

So yesterday after a few weeks of feeling like my name is Nag instead of Mom and even trying a new discipline program, I got a little invite from the Nubs to go on a bike ride. I was in the middle of something but I asked her if she wanted all of the family to go.

She hugged me and said, "No, just you."

Say what? Just me.

I jumped at the time and welcomed the feeling of being #1.

Hopping on that bike and cruising the neighborhood felt so good.

Not physically. Those two words, "Just you," filled my mom-tank in a moment.

Not only did I love feeling accepted by my 6 year old; but I think God brought that little lovely moment to my eyes to make me see how He loves me... just me... just the way I am.

friday randomness

2011-09-16T06:17:00.000-07:00

Hello Friday.

I am always so happy to see you.

random thoughts are always fun....

fall is my favorite time of the year. so cozy. the smells. the warm colors. the pumpkin scones.
Though it doesn't feel like fall in our 'hood, I can try to create it, right?

I am a creature of habit.
I eat the same thing every.stinkin.morning.
Kashi with fruit. BORING.
I need a new rut. What do you have for me?

**Disregard the wedgie sisters in the upper corner of this shot**
The Nubs informed me she is over the pink paint in her room. What???
She is moving on up to grown up girl style. Slow down, Nubs!

Dog Update.
This sweet beast has not destroyed any landscaping or household item in 1 year. Thank you, Lord.
I think he may have grown out of it.... let's see.

I have been sewing a smidge and going green at the same time.
pretty market bags

Ok. here's where I need your help.
I am NOT a fashionista. As you can see by my figure flattering maxi skirt and flouncy top.
But, I love The Pleated Poppy's WIWW posts. So fun. Great ideas.
I would love to link up but I look like a doofus in my pics. How do you make your shots all pro?
They don't even have to be pro... just better than this.

Happy weekend to you.
I am hoping to do a whole lot of nothing.

my new discipline system

2011-09-15T16:47:00.000-07:00

I love my girls. Let me say that first.

But, there are times that I am about to lose my mind.

Can I get an Amen??

whining, fighting, nit-picking, yelling,shrieking, repeat, repeat.

I have tried everything in my discipline bag o' tricks.

time-outs, taking priveleges away, going to their rooms, early bed times, paying a fine, a swift swat, nagging

But, nothing was working.

I was still going insane and my girls were not happy with the constant chaos.

I am introducing you to our new system: The Ticket System.

So far, it has been working smashingly.

The girls each get 5 tickets on Sunday.

During the week, they can lose tickets and earn tickets.

They each have their jars that they hoard them in.

It takes some work on my part... catching them being good, praising them. But, that is what I need... accountability.

So far, we have only been to the first warning stage. The next step would have been paying a ticket. Each infraction gets a little more severe. Haven't had to cross that bridge yet, since we are focusing on the positive.
They can use their tickets for rewards.
15 minutes of staying up late, breakfast in bed, having the fuzzy blanket at breakfast, donut run for breakfast
you get the idea.

So far, so good.
I have learned that my kids like the structure, the known- consequences and working towards something.
I like how I have traded my Nag hat for a more positive and complimentary one.
It looks way better on me! I am smiling and having fun with my kids.

always remember

2011-09-09T16:20:00.000-07:00

9/11 is always accompanied with the phrase

"Never Forget!"

I heard someone recently say that they choose to use the phrase,
"Always Remember!"

Sue it is just a word choice, but I think it sounds more active on my part to remember instead of forgetting.

But, I will always remember that day 10 years ago..

where I was (in the bathroom putting on my makeup when the Mister called)

how I reacted (I sat dumbfounded in front of the tv, crying away my newly applied makeup)

how my view of the world that my unborn child was about to be born into changed in a second.

I will always remember the images.

the towers, the dust, the destruction, the devastation, the grief, the fear

I will always remember the innocent people whose lives changed on that day by the sudden loss of a

parent, child, friend, colleage, neighbor, relative.

I will always remember the national pride. Everyone rallied together. We were all Americans. end of story.

I will always remember seeing American flags everywhere I looked.

A beautiful vision of solidarity.

I will always remember hearing people praying without hesitation.

So, 10 years later, I still remember.

On Sunday, I will do what I always do every Sunday but I will do it with more deliberation and intention.

I will put that beautiful flag out and wave it with pride.

I will go to church and pray.

This Sunday, I will pray for our great nation, for our leaders, for those faces that were forever changed on this day 10 years ago, for our brave military and their families who have been sacrificing for the past 10 years for our safety.

What will you do to always remember?